Top 3 Pet Peeves!



It’s one thing when kids do it but it’s another thing when a grown ass adult does it. Excuse my language but I mean, if you have some treasure you need to dig for in there.. do it in private or get some tissue, kleenex or something! I hate to see grown people freely picking their nose all out in the open and then what makes it even worse is that they don’t wash their hands afterwards or bother to use germ-ex! They just continue with whatever they we’re doing. JUST NASTY. Say what you want about me but I can’t stand it! Some people feel as if it’s natural to pick their nose.. and to be honest it is for the most part but it’s also nice to have some manners in doing so hahaha. I’m just saying!




This is another one that gets on my nerves. People who politely turn their head in the opposite direction of me to burp & say excuse me don’t bother me at all but those that literally burp right in my face or directly over MY FOOD piss me off !!! Some people think this is a stupid pet peeve because when you think about it, it’s just air but I don’t see it that way. It is air, but it’s air that has a funky kind of smell to it that I personally don’t want blown my way period.. especially when I’m trying to eat! Nobody wants to smell that mess. That’s gross!




slow walkers

Oh My Lord! Now this one just drives me up the wall!! haha. I can’t stand slow walking people!! It’s annoying if you’re a complete stranger in front of me, dragging your feet and pretty much in my way and it’s even more annoying if you’re with me, walk slow and you can’t keep up! My Husband and our two children are probably the world’s worst right now, especially my 5 year old!! He walks slower than all 4 of us combined, I swear and it drives me crazy especially when we’re at Walmart! haha. After a few minutes, I’ll be like, “Just get in the buggy.” I like to run in and out of places as quick as possible unless I’m on a shopping spree for clothes or something like that. Bless their hearts. I love em though but this is just one of those pet peeves that irk my nerves! haha.


I know my pet peeves probably sound silly & half childish but those are the top 3 that will have me looking at somebody all kinds of crazy! Do you have any pet peeves? If so, feel free to share one of them with me! 






I have a lot of actors & actresses out there that I love but I have to say.. these two are probably my most F A V O R I T E!! They have got to be some of the funniest people that have ever walked this earth. They are incredibly funny! I love them both on the TV & off off the TV. God has gifted them with some amazing talent from acting to singing! For the longest, I didn’t know they were a married couple in real life!! haha. (and no I did not just find out recently. It’s been a while!). I love the Christian Bond that they seem to share and also how they’re always promoting God’s Word and so much Extra Positivity behind it. If I had to choose my favorite “celebrity couple” it would be them. Man, they’re so encouraging and they show phenomenal leadership! One thing about great leaders.. they don’t actually set out to be a leader. They set out to make a difference. It’s never about the “role” but more so about the goal. I feel like the way they encourage others speaks of volumes about who they are as people. I love to see couples who are successful in both their life and marriage take the time to encourage those around them and other married couples or people who are striving to do the same.

If you don’t know who these two people are, I suggest you check out all of Tyler Perry’s (Madea) movies, plays and just about all of his TV shows! I promise you.. Cora & Mr. Brown are just about in all of them. Between Madea, those two and Bam (I can’t leave her out) they are just downright funny! They will have you nearly in tears laughing at them! I would list all of the movies, plays and shows but there are too many! I’m scared I might leave one out by accident. However, there are a few of Tamela & David Mann’s talk shows on YouTube that I’ve watched! I loved every single second of each video. Here are a few of them if you’re interested:

1. Long Lasting Marriage & Hilarious “It’s a Mann’s World!”


2. Weight Loss & Family


3. Blended Families 

4. How They Keep Love Alive


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When Inspiration Strikes Through Housework.. Gahh, I Hate This Part About “Adulting”

My children are currently sleeping.. perfect time for me to blog in peace!! Unfortunately, I’ve been sitting here for the longest struggling with “writer’s block” and it’s annoying because I rarely ever have this issue! Normally, I take notes or save them in my phone the very second inspiration strikes so that when I do get the chance to write, I already have a variety of topics to choose from without any hesitation. Yeah, that might sound a little crazy but if I waited til I felt like writing, I’d  never write at all! Today is a little bit of a struggle because I’m using a new phone. My iPhone played out on me sooo I decided go back to being “Team Android” again haha. I love my new phone by the way! I just hate it that I lost all of my notes. 

But God is good! Just as I was about to give up on writing for a few hours and come back to it later.. inspiration struck me out of nowhere! I kid you not, I was about to lay down on my couch, get good and comfy, turn on one of my favorite shows and BOOM!! .. This is what I see… Just look at this mess!! Crazy mountains of clean laundry staring me in my face from the other couch…. just waiting to be folded! 


One of things I hate about “Adulting” AND Motherhood is L A U N D R Y!!! I can never seem to get it caught up or keep it done!! See, I don’t have a problem with washing dirty clothes. I just hate having to fold them and put them away!! Does anyone else have this issue?? Every now and then my Husband will fold them and then I’ll put them away but other than that…. Lord, these clothes will be resting on my couch until I’m in the mood to fool with them! It’s sad. I know. I should be folding them right now since I’m not doing anything else but I really don’t have the motivation for it! haha. 


No, I’m serious haha. I need answers! I have got to do better when it comes to laundry! I’m getting too old to be hating laundry this much haha. Any tips on how you guys manage your laundry from day to day or even week to week? If anyone has a method to this madness.. I’m all ears!! 🙂 

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My Top Fav. Funny Movies 😂 What’s Yours?

  1. Wedding Crashers
  2. Guess Who
  3. Step Brothers
  4. Girls Trip
  5. Get Hard
  6. Think Like A Man
  7. Think Like A Man Too
  8. About Lastnight
  9. Death at a Funeral
  10. Longest Yard
  11. Click
  12. 50 First Dates
  13. Grown Ups 1 & 2
  14. Waterboy
  15. Thats My Boy
  16. Big Daddy
  17. Ride Along
  18. The Wedding Ringer
  19. Almost Christmas
  20. Madea’s Christmas
  21. Boo! A Madea Halloween
  22. Boo! A Madea Halloween 2
  23. Rush Hour (The Entire Collection)
  24. Life
  25. White Chicks
  26. House Party
  27. Madea’s Big Happy Family
  28. Friday
  29. Next Friday
  30. Friday After Next
  31. 21 Jump Street
  32. 21 Jump Street 2
  33. First Sunday
  34. Identity Thief
  35. Hancock
  36. Hitch
  37. Baywatch
  38. Central Intelligence
  39. Madea Goes To Jail
  40. Liar Liar

of course there are a million more funny movies out there!! I just named the funniest ones that came to my mind. If you have any favs list em in the comments below!! ☺️

ME Time for M0MS.


Even the most dedicated and patient mother needs a break every now and then. Your reasons may be different from mine but I know for me personally, sometimes the responsibilities of life tend to get a bit overwhelming. Every once in a blue moon, I’m able to catch a break from work, school, church, friends, finances & everything else that demands my attention almost on a daily basis but the one thing that I can hardly seem to catch a break from is MOTHERHOOD. Now don’t get me wrong, because I love my babies. They are truly my two little balls of sunshine but sometimes the day-to-day tasks of motherhood are just tough. That’s not really the reason we all deserve a little quiet time. It’s because those day-to-day tasks literally never end. If you’re a mom you know exactly what I’m talking about; there’s always something to do! It is so easy for moms to forget that they’re people too and as such, deserving of the occasional breather.

Due to the fact that I don’t have a very good support system, I don’t get breaks very often. In fact, “breaks” are very rare for me so when I do get them… I appreciate them very much! Because of this, I tend to dramatically indulge in my little “me time” moments!! Maaannn, I ENJOY EVERY SINGLE SECOND I GET!! Just to help another mom out there that’s like me and doesn’t get to enjoy the luxury of breaks.. I’m gonna share some of my mommy indulges.


Monday-Friday I’m automatically up no later than 5:45am to get ready for work & get my kids ready for school but on the weekends.. sometimes, I’m up early by choice! I like to enjoy the quiet and stillness of the house while they’re sleeping in. I have found it to be one of the best times to read a book, study my bible, spend some time in prayer, write/blog, do some exercising, get a head start on cleaning or just lay there and be lazy in peace while scrolling on social media.


Now sometimes, this is just something necessary to do…absolutely nothing and it feels good! I don’t have a designated day for this one. I just kind of base this one off of how my work day went. Most of the time if it was a super long and stressful one then yeah.. I’m taking the night off at home and by night off, I mean I’m literally coming home to unwind and relax! I’m not cooking dinner, doing laundry and sometimes not even the dishes! The only things those type of nights consist of in my house are my daily tasks with my children (homework, showers and easy dinner like pizza) , a big glass of wine to myself, enjoying some of my favorite TV shows and spending time with my Husband!


OK! This funky little idea right here just so happens to be one of my FAVORITES!! It kinda seems like the younger your children are the more they seem to harass you while you’re on the toilet or in the shower but now that mine are a little older (3yrs & 5yrs) they know to leave me alone when I’m in there!! Now before I go spend 45mins-1hr in the bathroom, I usually wait until their dad is home just in case they need anything… they can ask him! (& don’t ask me why I’m in there that long either haha sometimes it’s just the best place to relax… ya know a bubble bath & a glass of wine, music, my phone and to get away from everyone!!) If he’s not there, then I wait until they’re in the bed! Usually, by that time they don’t need anything else but to go to sleep. Time in the bathroom is a great way to get some good quiet me time!


I don’t make my kids take naps as often as I use to just because I feel like they’re getting a little too old for them. Even though, the house is quietest when they’re sleeping and most relaxing for me… I save this method for when I’m exhausted and need a nap myself or if I’m just not feeling well and don’t have the energy to do anything but lay around. However, when a daily nap use to be apart of my children’s schedule it was usually a time of relief for me. I would take advantage of that time to get some things done that I would normally struggle with if they were awake and running wild.


Sometimes, I leave my kids at home with their dad & take trips to Walmart or the Dollar Store just to get out of the house and catch a breather. Sometimes, I go because I have something in particular that I need to buy and sometimessss I go just to get that break away from home for a few minutes; especially after a tough day. It’s just nice to be alone and get some fresh air. This is indeed relaxing. Not only is it nice to get away from the kids for a minute but its also nice to window shop! haha and when I’m shopping for real, it’s just nice to shop in peace! This sounds horrible but I love going to the store without my kids because normally when they’re with me they ask for absolutely everything!! Every now and then, they’ll drive me completely up the wall in Walmart from one aisle to the next! Bless it Lord haha.


The box technique is also known as “chill time” in my house. This particular box is where you keep all of your children’s favorite toys/games that they don’t play too often or have to be under supervision while playing with them. For example, my box consists of Tablets, Nintendo DS, Playdough, Slime, Coloring Books & Crayons! Well actually, I don’t quite have box. I’m not that organized 😂 my stuff sits up on a shelf! But anyway, my kids LOVE chill time!! Whenever I want a few minutes of “calm & quiet” I let them choose from the shelf what they want to play with. If it’s electronics, then I make them sit on their beds and play them quietly. If it’s playdough or slime, I let them sit at their table and quietly play with those as well. Same method for the coloring. My boys LOVE when I let them get their hands on this stuff! Believe it or not but it keeps them very content, calm, happy & entertained for a long time! I know when I pull this stuff out, most of the time I don’t have to worry about them arguing/fighting. Y’all know how kids can be! Anyways, this gives me the chance to kinda relax in my world a little bit & just do some things that I enjoy doing in peace. (Arts & Crafts, Making Door Wreaths, Writing/Blogging, or just watching TV!) Yay, another win for mom!!


This is another form of “me time” that is absolutely one of my favorites! You get to pamper yourself AND enjoy the luxury of “me time” all in one! It’s pretty self explanatory. I haven’t been to the beauty salon in what seems like forever!! It’s about time that I pay them another visit very soon. I need something done to my hair ASAP 🤪 I shall be treating myself very very soon !!


I understand that a lot of parents are different when it comes to this. Some people put their kids to bed by 8pm and some let their kids stay up til 2am. Some people have their kids on a schedule and some don’t. At my house, my kids are in the bed by 8pm most nights. Occasionally, they get to stay up until 10:30pm at the latest but other than that.. they’re in the bed at a decent time. For my Husband and I have to them on a daily routine like that is beneficial to both them & us. They get the proper amount of sleep they need to function the next day and we get the rest of the night to spend quality time with each other. I personally know a few people who have said that one of the biggest issues between them & their partner/spouse is that they never get to spend any time together due to always having to deal with the kids. These are also people/parents who let their kids stay up close until 2am every night too. I just want to state the fact that one of the reasons marriages & relationships fail .. is due to lack of communication and quality time. To have your kids on a schedule/daily routine is beneficial to single parents as well. I don’t make my kids go straight to sleep as soon as they lay down. I let them lay there and watch a movie of their choice until they doze off. (which is normally an hr after they’ve gotten in the bed) When they’re in the bed, I use all of that time to really relax! I get to sit down and eat my dinner in peace, enjoy TV in peace, spend QT with my husband in peace and get super comfortable! I know by that time it’s always perfectly okay to do so. If you’re one those people who absolutely can’t catch a break for nothing… just know that if and when you get your kids on a schedule when it comes to bedtime, you’ll find a lot more relief. Don’t complain about never being able to catch a breather if you haven’t tried this yet!

I love my babies but sometimes.. I just need a break from my little rugrats and the day-to day tasks. I know there are other moms out there like me who don’t have the greatest support system and have to take quick breaks when they can and enjoy them! Just don’t forget that you’re a person & you deserve the occasional breather too. I hope that some of my Me Time for Moms Ideas helped you and if you have any that you’d like to share please feel free to do so!! I’m always open to new ideas 🙂