A Little Love For You Today!❤

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Be ye reminded; YOU get to make daily decisions about who and what deserves access to YOU !! Now that you are reminded of what fresh air feels and smells like, you have no reason to stay in anything toxic or go back to it. Just because you’re at peace doesn’t mean they’re not still toxic. No one has to understand your positive changes. As a matter of fact, don’t ever feel bad about changing for the better. Others will have you question your change but those who love you will encourage your improvement for knowing your worth and valuing yourself.

Remember, it can’t be in your space if it isn’t making you money, growing you, loving you, or giving you peace. If it doesn’t give you good vibes then kindly walk away from it. The more you distance yourself from negativity, the more you’ll see amazing things start to happen. Keep taking care of you. Be protective over your peace and always keep in the back of your mind that happiness is a choice just like being positive is a choice. I’m a biggie on self-care and this is just one of those aspects of it that I will always remind you of just as I continue to remind myself! 💕

Just thought I’d drop a little encouragement in your spirit today! (: I hope you all are having a great, fun and safe weekend!!

xoxo,

Jessica!

 

HAPPY FRIDAY: Some Strength For Your Struggles💪

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“Your struggle will transform into your testimony. It’s only temporary. Thank God for it. Never wish your struggles away, for that is the womb in which your blessings are formed and ready to be birthed. Your struggle is the heart of the blessing. Yes the struggle is real but so is God’s favor. Now that is what makes your blessing flawless!” -Tatiana Jerome 💛

So whoever you are, wherever you are.. be encouraged. I PROMISE You, Greater IS Coming! I need you to get that in your spirit. Get it deep down in there! What’s to come is still {.BETTER.} than what’s already been. I know it’s hard right now and your faith is struggling a little bit and that’s okay! You’re human. I’m just here to remind you that you can & you will get through this. God is always building you even when it feels like He’s breaking you. There’s purpose behind everything you go through. Believe that!🙌 God is always doing a trillion things in your life & you may only be aware of three of them. So chin up, babe! Your best days are ahead of you. Keep going because your miracle is not behind you! God’s power is not intimidated by your circumstances and where you come from does not determine where God plans to take you!!💕

**sending lots of love, hugs & positive vibes your way!**

HAPPY FRI-YAY

-Jessica

Dealing with NEGATIVE People

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How do I deal with negative people? 

A few ways I’ve learned to deal with negative people when I just absolutely have to be around them is:

  1. Avoid lecturing or preaching to the person. I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even waste my breath. If they don’t directly ask for my opinion then I keep it to myself.
  2. Act instead of reacting. Negative people feed off of each other and I’ve noticed that sometimes they like to pick at other people who carry a more positive vibe and intentionally push their buttons just to get a reaction.. but I’ve learned how to give them the exact opposite!! 😜 There’s some stuff you just leave alone. You don’t fix every problem that comes across your radar. You don’t try to straighten out every dispute that comes before you. I’ve learned to choose my battles wisely. Sometimes, peace is better than being right.
  3. Brighten the Conversation. Anybody that knows me knows I’m a goofy person. I love to laugh!! A lot of times, I’ll try to brighten the convo by attempting to bring laughter or positive vibes to it and if that doesn’t work then I get up & kindly walk away.

 

Other than those three methods that I just mentioned above.. I don’t fool with negative people! I just don’t. They’re like annoying bags of HELL !! I know that’s mean but it’s true and if you’re not careful, they will suck the “happy” right out of you. For that very reason, I keep my distance.✌

During the first two months of this year, I worked hard on regaining my sense of self-peace back and now that I have it back.. I’ve been very protective over it. As a matter of fact, I’ve been  on such a positive streak here lately that anything or anybody that is contrary to that is getting cut off. I’ve gotten to the point where I won’t even allow myself to be in the enviroment of negativity. I don’t go around negative, miserable, sour and petty people unless I just have to be there and you better believe if I have to go.. I’m carrying all kinds of positive vibes with me! I’ve gotten in the habit of setting the tone, setting the atmosphere for positivity just about anywhere I go. I try to make sure I bring laughter, good vibes, be uplifting.. I’ll get somewhere and start speaking life over people, speaking prosperity, I speak healing because there is power in your words! If you can believe what you keep speaking then you’ll also see whatever it is that you’re speaking come to past. That’s that faith talk right there! There is power in your tongue and don’t ever forget that. You can go somewhere or nowhere based on what you say and your belief in what you said. ❤

But some people don’t like that. They don’t like when you bring medicine to a conversation. They don’t want to be healed. They don’t want to be free. They don’t want to feel better about their situation. They could care less about a positive perspective. They would rather stay in bondage. They ain’t really looking for happiness. Most of the time they just want attention and that’s cool. I don’t even waste my energy entertaining that type of behavior anymore. I used to feel so sorry for people like that but at some point, I came to the realization that if/when they really want better, they’ll do better. No excuses. I kindly say a prayer for ’em and just go on about my business.

The older I get the more I realize that I won’t settle for anything that disturbs my peace and I’m serious. I don’t want to be around any drama, conflict or stress. If we don’t vibe the same.. I won’t entertain too much of a conversation with you. If our energies don’t match, you can just forget it. 🤷‍♀️That may have even sounded mean but you have to learn to not let bitter, unhappy people drag you down to their level.

This is my way of dealing with negative people while also maintaining keeping my peace protected. I haven’t always dealt with them this way and as a result in the past, it caused me to be emotionally stressed and irritated all the time. Thank God for better methods though!! Now my question to you is, how do you deal with negative people

As always.. thanks for reading!! I love you guys from the bottom of my heart! 🙂 

-Jessica

 

 

 

 

Just In Case No One Told You Today..

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You are A M A Z I N G! 💞 You are Important. You are Special! You are Unique. You are Kind. You are Precious. You are worthy of love & guess what? You ARE Loved!❤💙 You’re worthy of your dreams. You are [.e n o u g h.] Stay away from people who make you believe anything otherwise. You are GREAT at what you do. You are capable of amazing things! You are successful & I wish you much more success on top of that! 🙏Your mistakes & failures are opportunities to become a better version of yourself. They help build your muscle.💪 You have the ability to overcome any challenge life throws at you. You carry both strength & resilience with you. Every step you take is one of courage! You are a beautiful person😍😘..Every part of your body radiates beauty. It’s an expression of your individuality! Be confident in it! You’re a Blessing!!🙌 Keep pushing, keep praying and striving for greatness!! I just wanted to remind you that so far.. YOU’RE DOING A GREAT JOB!! Oh & remember .. it’s okay if you take longer than others, that doesn’t mean you’re going to fail!🎓📝📚

Give yourself a hug for me & Happy FriYAY!!

Some people will always be… where they are!!

Seriously, you know you have no importance about yourself or your life whatsoever when the only thing you do is look for drama on social media & indulge in it all day everyday!

Get some real life goals about yourself. Find something to do! Read/Write a book. Go back to school. Start your own business. Create a vision board & do something each day to work towards actually achieving those goals. Go make some money! Figure out what your good at & turn them into side hustles for extra cash! (legal of course) Shoot, become a blogger! Get active in your community and come up with different ways to promote positivity. Thats always needed!!

There is so much more out here for you to do besides wasting time & energy on nonsense. Fighting and arguing over the same stuff day in & day out has to eventually get tiresome and old. Focus on using all of that energy towards doing something positive otherwise you wont get very far in life. You will indeed always remain right where you are. Do better, much better. 💜