50 Reasons To NOT Commit Suicide!! READ THIS BEFORE YOU DO IT!

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  1. It does get better. Believe it or not but eventually it will get better.
  2. You are amazing!
  3. Sometimes God redeems your story by surrounding you with people who need to hear your past, so it doesn’t become their future.🙌
  4. Sometimes God assigns certain mountains to your life to show others that they can be moved.
  5. It  may not feel like you’re making progress but believe me, you are. That’s why others are watching. Keep going.🏃💪
  6. Your breakthrough is not attached to the ones who tried to break you.
  7. Don’t give up. Things can change in an instant.
  8. We would miss you.
  9. You are loved! (Psalm 34:18) God is close to the brokenhearted & saves those who are crushed in spirit.
  10. There is beauty in your breakdown. 💋
  11. For some, the only thing you did wrong was pick them! It’s not losing your life or sleep over.
  12. God created you for a reason!
  13. You’re here because God wants you here! He has a purpose for your life and you need to stick around so it can be fulfilled. 💙
  14. You will make it through this & it will make you so much stronger.
  15. You are beautiful!
  16. You are needed!
  17. You’re stronger than you think.💪
  18. The bravest thing you could ever do is continue your life even when you want to end it.
  19. You are not alone.
  20. God has not forgotten about you!
  21. “God’s grace & mercy is sufficient .. for His power is made perfect in your weakness” .. 2Corinthians 12:9 📖
  22. Despite the people that have counted you out! God has not counted you out! In fact, He has a habit of using those that have been counted out!! You are right where he needs you to be. There’s purpose for your life.
  23. You ARE somebody!
  24. You ARE Good Enough!!! ❤
  25. You’re miracle is not behind you. Keep going babe!
  26. There are people who DO care about you!
  27. Own who you are. You are a phenomenal person and one day your story is gonna change someone else’s life.👌😘
  28. You feel like giving up but don’t! Triumph is on the other side!
  29. It’s okay to cry. Sometimes a good cry is all you need to release all the hurt that’s built up inside of you.
  30. You were never created to live depressed. You were created to be victorious and guess what!?! This too shall pass.
  31. Stay strong baby! Your story isn’t over yet. 😘
  32. You might not understand the pain now but believe me.. God has it under control!
  33. What’s over your head is still under God’s Feet!
  34. God is bigger than your circumstances.🙌👏
  35. Strong people get weak sometimes too and that’s okay! You need to know that.
  36. Committing suicide is something that your parents will NEVER get over.. whether you guys have a good relationship or not. Don’t do that to them. 😢
  37. It’ll destroy both your siblings and best friends. Don’t do that to them!
  38. You are worthy of love!
  39. You are loved beyond comprehension!
  40. You are capable of reaching all of your dreams!❤
  41. You’re incredible. You really are.
  42. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1.800.273.8255 call them if you need to! No shame in it whatsoever!
  43. Whoever you are, wherever you are.. I’m praying for you!!🙏
  44. I pray that the Peace of God comforts and surrounds you.
  45. I decree and declare that from this day forward you are strengthened to keep going and keep fighting!
  46. No negative thoughts against you shall prosper!
  47. You WILL BE SUCCESSFUL! 💯
  48. You can make it and you will.
  49. Hang in there.. for real. It’ll get better.
  50. You’re life is worth fighting for.

 

Sending lots of hugs, loves, kisses & positive vibes YOUR way! 😍😘

There are sooo many people fighting depression and anxiety every single day. Most of everyone is fighting battles daily that you don’t even know about. People who are close to you could be fighting so hard to see the next day but because they’re so good at hiding it.. you would never really know until it’s too late! This something that’s more than just a “blog” post to me. Be sure to share this with anyone who needs it! So many of us now are so much stronger from the thing that broke us down the most and it took strength and encouragement for us to make it through and keep going. So even if you don’t share this post (you don’t have to, I promise!) make sure you still take the time out of your day, make it your business to say an encouraging word to somebody.. anybody! You never who needs it!❤💛

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Hello March!! Goals for the next 31 days.

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“Spend More Time With Jesus”

This is just something that I need to do a better job at period. Sometimes, I’ll do good reading my bible and spending some time in prayer everyday and then after a while.. I get very inconsistent with it. I don’t know why but I need to improve my consistency. I’m going to work on spending time with God around the exact same time EVERYDAY and not just when I feel like it. I believe if I can find balance with that, I’ll do better. 

 

Drink More Water!”

Okay, so this one.. I might struggle with! As much as I LOVEEE my Sprites and slushes from Sonic, I know I need to give them  a rest. Sometimes I like water and sometimes I don’t. Even though I know water is healthy.. I still have a love/hate relationship with it. However, there are many benefits to drinking water!! It increases energy & relieves fatigue, promotes weight loss, flushes out toxins, improves skin complexion, boosts immune system and prevents cramps and sprains. So with that being said, I’m going to do better!! So far, I’ve gotten in the habit of drinking water all day while I’m at work. I wait to drink everything else later in the evening when I’m eating dinner. I’m not sure if that defeats the purpose or not but it’s a start!

 

“Work on Shutting Down Conversations That Aim To Tear Down Other People”

Uh ohh.. this is a big one!! It is so easy to get caught up in conversations of gossip. It’s easy to fall into the trap of talking about negative things, problems, disappointments and struggles, especially when it’s about someone else. Don’t act like you’re not guilty of it. We’ve all done it. Whether it’s you that starts the conversation or someone else.. it is so easy to get on the subject of other people’s business instead of focusing on the POSITIVE things that they have going on or solutions for their problems. WE gotta do better. Yes, I’m talking about me too! We gotta work on speaking more words of encouragement that will build people up and make them feel better instead of tearing them down. We get many opportunities everyday to put this into practice, but it requires real discipline and determination. 

 

Yes I know, I didn’t set A LOT of goals.. but that’s just how I am. I like to set small realistic goals for myself and work on reaching them first before I set way too many just to end up feeling unaccomplished. It’s just easier that way for me 🙂 Do you have any personal goals for the month of March? Feel free to share them with me! I would love the inspiration! Oh & don’t forget to like, comment, share or subscribe to my site if you liked this post or any of my other posts!! Thank you guys!! All support is appreciated more than you will ever know!

 

C’mon.. Share Your FAVORITE Scripture With Me!!

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One of my most F A V O R I T E scriptures in the Bible..

28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

& to me this just simply means that no matter how bad things get in my life, no matter how tough circumstances get or how big some of those storms may be.. I know I can always find a little peace in knowing that God has a plan for my life. He still has everything under control! What’s over my head, is still and will always be under his feet! And in order for me to fulfill the purpose that He has over my life.. I’m gonna have to go through some things!! It may hurt. It might not always feel good but there’s a purpose behind that pain.

I don’t read my bible like should but this is just one of those verses that stick with me! It’s always somewhere in the back of my head haha. What’s your favorite scripture?? C’mon… Share it with meee!! 

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SIX TIPS ON HOW TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE/RELATIONSHIP FRESH ❤️

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  1. Spend Some Time With Jesus Together

Now this is just my personal opinion but when God is the foundation of your marriage/relationship & kept at the center of it, it’ll always be a successful one. God will not bless a union that He is not involved in. With that being said, spend some time with Jesus together. Practice going to God in prayer together. Read & study your bible together… or you could be like me and my husband and watch preaching videos together on YouTube. We watch Pastor John Gray. I LOVE him and his style of preaching!! He’s like a comedian and preacher all in one, not boring and very inspirational. To me, growing closer to God TOGETHER is a form on intimacy but on a much deeper level.

  1. COMMUNICATION!

Always make sure that you & your spouse keep a clear line of communication. All relationship problems stem from poor communication. Try not to get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them.. Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Genuine consideration is the key. Be mature enough to handle conflict with maturity. Be sure to let your partner know when you’re annoyed with them instead of bottling up anger inside. Treat your partner with respect, even when you’re trying not to scream at them. Be willing to compromise because of  l o v e. Communicate … even when it’s uncomfortable or uneasy. One of the best ways to heal is to simply get everything out. Oh and let me say this, it’s a bit cliché but you also need to understand that you don’t have to cheat to lose your partner. You can lose your partner from lack of communication, attention and disrespect. It’s not all about what you do, sometimes it’s about what you DON’T do! Silence isn’t golden & it surely doesn’t mean consent. So make sure you’re constantly practicing the art of communication. It’s very important!!

  1. DATE NIGHT!

Date nights are more important than you think. Everyone is so busy. Like seriously, I get it. Between work, family, and social commitments, there’s hardly enough time to squeeze in that one-on-one quality time with your spouse. Try to make it a priority to take time out away from the kids, work, social life, or just reality period and spend time with your boo! Set a certain day of each week for a date night OR if that doesn’t work for you, try to manage having a date night at least once a month. Your date night doesn’t have to always be extravagant & expensive. Sometimes, it can something as simple as a candle lit dinner at home, a walk in the park, picnic, ice cream date or even “Netflix & Chillin”. It doesn’t have to be expensive. The ultimate goal is spend “alone time” together. Doing this keeps your love fresh & fun!

  1. Magic in the Bedroom

In a relationship, sex is associated with stability because it increases bonding especially when each other’s sexual desires are fulfilled… with marriage, sex is very important because it maintains a certain level of intimacy. Okay so I’m just gonna say it… N E V E R allow your sex game to become boring and I mean that! Sometimes, that alone will open the door of temptation for your partner to step out on you. Don’t get too comfortable with the same routines. Step your foreplay game up. Try some new/different positions. Do something different & unexpected every once in a while. Keep it spicy & spontaneous in your bedroom!! To me, this also contributes to keeping your marriage/relationship fresh, fun, young and most important intimate!!

  1. JUST BECAUSE YOU’RE MARRIED DOESN’T MEAN YOUR DATING LIFE SHOULD END !!!

Continue to date your spouse after you marry them. Pursing your partner shouldn’t stop just because you said, “I do.” A lot of times, relationships stop growing because people stop taking the time to purse each other. Dating is really a time when you get to know someone in a special and unique way and to be honest with you, that’s something that should never stop! Those butterflies you got on the first date shouldn’t stop because years have passed by. Never stop teasing and flirting with each other. Keep having fun and being naughty no matter how long you’ve been together. Keep doing the little things that make your partner happy. Don’t wait for a holiday to do something special for your partner. Surprise them with random unexpected gifts and gestures “just because”… things like that keep the excitement in your marriage and in some ways also make your spouse feel appreciated too!

  1. TRAVEL!!

Oh my gosh! This is one of the most enjoyable things to do with your boo!! OK, well it’s one my favorites actually. There is nothing like getting away from the stress of reality and enjoying paradise with your spouse for a few days or so. It is so relaxing! No kids, no work, no responsibility .. it’s just simply YOU & YOUR SPOUSE having time alone to be both adventurous & intimate!! After my husband and I got married and went on our honeymoon and had so much fun. We made a vow to travel at least once EVERY year together! More than likely, it’ll be how we celebrate our Anniversaries J Last year we went to Gulf Shores, AL and this year we’ll be taking on Destin, FL. I’m so excited. I can’t wait to be back on the beach!! Enough about me and mine though… try to make it a goal to travel somewhere whether it be a few times throughout the year or just once a year with your spouse. It’s always so much fun to experience new places and adventures with one another.

These are just a few tips on how to help keep your marriage/relationship fresh that my husband & I live by. The only one we really struggle with is Date Night since we always have our children 24/7 so we have to improvise and find other ways to squeeze our time in but we’re working on it! If you have any tips, share them with me in the comments please! Thanks for tuning in with me today! Hope to see you back again soon!! 🙂