Working on Low Self-Esteem!❀

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You really are good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, strong enough and you know what? You need to start believing those things about yourself because it’s true! People can encourage and compliment you all day long but until you start believing it about yourself for yourself then your confidence and self esteem will never get to where it needs to be. So with that being said, today is another day to create a list but instead of just reading, I want you to actually do this in your personal time when you get a chance. Write down five things you L O V E about yourself and if you don’t want to write it then just think about it!

It is so easy to notice the things you love about other people but what about you?? And I don’t get the wrong idea here; I’m not encouraging cockiness but for the ones who struggle with low self-esteem issues .. I want to help you! Self-Love is such an ongoing process and it is so important !! When you’re able to love yourself, you respect yourself so much more. It’s just easier to walk away from things that stop serving you growth and give more time to the things and people that do! So, I made my list of five things I love about myself. This was such a positive, personal exercise of both self love and self care! You should try it.

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Okay.. so here’s my personal list πŸ‘€ let’s dive right into this!πŸ’–πŸ’›

1. Friendly Personality

I’m a friendly person! I’ve always been that way and honestly I think I get that characteristic from my mom. I don’t meet too many strangers unless I just really don’t feel like dealing with people that day haha and yes, sometimes I get in those moods but for the most part I am probably one of the nicest people you will ever on this side of earth and I’m not ashamed to say that πŸ™‚ The world needs more FRIENDLY people if you ask me! I get tired of running into semi-friendly, fake, rude, hateful, mean and hard people. So I’mΒ always letting my friendly little light shine.

2. Encouraging Spirit

Β Encouraging people is something that feels and comes so natural to me, I swear. A lot of personal things that I’ve been through in my life has a lot to do with it. I know what it’s like to be at theΒ bottom and feel like you don’t have the support or encouragement that you need to go keep going. Therefore, I desire to push people into greatness any way that I can !! πŸ™‚Β 

3. Sense of Humor

Besides being one of the nicest people you’d ever meet, I’m also probably one of the silliest! I love laughter. I love laughing til my stomach hurts from laughing so hard! Sometimes, I can be a complete goofball and most of the time that’s how I get through most of my days! (Work Days Especially) I’m thankful that being silliness is a part of my personality because people with those dry sense of humors and dry personalities kill me … Oh my gosh. I cannot stand it. The dryness alone will suck the fun right out of things.

4. Creative

This is a part of me that I love; creativeness !! πŸ™‚ I’ve always been a crafty, maybe a little artistic but I didn’t realize how creative I was or how creative I could be until last year when I developed a hobby of making burlap wreaths, tie blankets, bow ties, hair bows and personalized canvases !!! To make that stuff is time consuming but it’s {.F U N.} and relaxing!!

5. Different

One thing I don’t try to do is keep up. I do my own thing, stay in my own lane and ride my own wave. I could care less if people like how I move. I like what I like. A picky eating, thrifty shopping, friendly, gospel music loving, strawberry lemonade drinking, sarcastic, crafty human being I am!! haha. Being myself is so much more fun than trying to fit in with everybody else! πŸ™‚Β 

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How cool is it that the same God, who created the mountains, oceans, and galaxies, looked at you and though the world needed one of you too? Learn to embrace yourself just the way you are and love who God created you to be!Β 

I really hope you take time to engage in this personal activity of self-love & self-care. It will help improve your self-esteem. Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way! Be great, be happy and be free in yourΒ authenticity!! Xx!!

-Jessica

 

Never Underestimate the Power of a Good Attitude!πŸ˜‰

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Β You can’t have a goodΒ  day with a bad attitude and you can’t have a bad day with a good attitude !! πŸ€·β€β™€οΈThink positive and positive things will happen. Great thoughts become a great attitude. A great attitude becomes a great mood. A great mood becomes a great day. A great day becomes a great week. A great week becomes a great year and a great year becomes a great life !! To experience a great life, you need to change and control the way you think.Β A good attitude is everything so make sure you pick a good one! This post is very short, sweet and to the point today but it still sends a powerful message. A bad attitude can literally block love, blessings, and destiny from finding you. Don’t be the reason you don’t succeed!!Β 

πŸ’–πŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ’šΒ  πŸ’–πŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ’š πŸ’–πŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ’œπŸ’š

Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way !!! πŸ™‚Β 

-JessicaΒ Β 

50 Reasons To NOT Commit Suicide!! READ THIS BEFORE YOU DO IT!

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  1. It does get better. Believe it or not but eventually it will get better.
  2. You are amazing!
  3. Sometimes God redeems your story by surrounding you with people who need to hear your past, so it doesn’t become their future.πŸ™Œ
  4. Sometimes God assigns certain mountains to your life to show others that they can be moved.
  5. ItΒ  may not feel like you’re making progress but believe me, you are. That’s why others are watching. Keep going.πŸƒπŸ’ͺ
  6. Your breakthrough is not attached to the ones who tried to break you.
  7. Don’t give up. Things can change in an instant.
  8. We would miss you.
  9. You are loved! (Psalm 34:18) God is close to the brokenhearted & saves those who are crushed in spirit.
  10. There is beauty in your breakdown. πŸ’‹
  11. For some, the only thing you did wrong was pick them! It’s not losing your life or sleep over.
  12. God created you for a reason!
  13. You’re here because God wants you here! He has a purpose for your life and you need to stick around so it can be fulfilled. πŸ’™
  14. You will make it through this & it will make you so much stronger.
  15. You are beautiful!
  16. You are needed!
  17. You’re stronger than you think.πŸ’ͺ
  18. The bravest thing you could ever do is continue your life even when you want to end it.
  19. You are not alone.
  20. God has not forgotten about you!
  21. “God’s grace & mercy is sufficient .. for His power is made perfect in your weakness” .. 2Corinthians 12:9 πŸ“–
  22. Despite the people that have counted you out! God has not counted you out! In fact, He has a habit of using those that have been counted out!! You are right where he needs you to be. There’s purpose for your life.
  23. You ARE somebody!
  24. You ARE Good Enough!!! ❀
  25. You’re miracle is not behind you. Keep going babe!
  26. There are people who DO care about you!
  27. Own who you are. You are a phenomenal person and one day your story is gonna change someone else’s life.πŸ‘ŒπŸ˜˜
  28. You feel like giving up but don’t! Triumph is on the other side!
  29. It’s okay to cry. Sometimes a good cry is all you need to release all the hurt that’s built up inside of you.
  30. You were never created to live depressed. You were created to be victorious and guess what!?! This too shall pass.
  31. Stay strong baby! Your story isn’t over yet. 😘
  32. You might not understand the pain now but believe me.. God has it under control!
  33. What’s over your head is still under God’s Feet!
  34. God is bigger than your circumstances.πŸ™ŒπŸ‘
  35. Strong people get weak sometimes too and that’s okay! You need to know that.
  36. Committing suicide is something that your parents will NEVER get over.. whether you guys have a good relationship or not. Don’t do that to them. 😒
  37. It’ll destroy both your siblings and best friends. Don’t do that to them!
  38. You are worthy of love!
  39. You are loved beyond comprehension!
  40. You are capable of reaching all of your dreams!❀
  41. You’re incredible. You really are.
  42. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1.800.273.8255 call them if you need to! No shame in it whatsoever!
  43. Whoever you are, wherever you are.. I’m praying for you!!πŸ™
  44. I pray that the Peace of God comforts and surrounds you.
  45. I decree and declare that from this day forward you are strengthened to keep going and keep fighting!
  46. No negative thoughts against you shall prosper!
  47. You WILL BE SUCCESSFUL! πŸ’―
  48. You can make it and you will.
  49. Hang in there.. for real. It’ll get better.
  50. You’re life is worth fighting for.

 

Sending lots of hugs, loves, kisses & positive vibes YOUR way! 😍😘

There are sooo many people fighting depression and anxiety every single day. Most of everyone is fighting battles daily that you don’t even know about. People who are close to you could be fighting so hard to see the next day but because they’re so good at hiding it.. you would never really know until it’s too late! This something that’s more than just a “blog” post to me. Be sure to share this with anyone who needs it! So many of us now are so much stronger from the thing that broke us down the most and it took strength and encouragement for us to make it through and keep going. So even if you don’t share this post (you don’t have to, I promise!) make sure you still take the time out of your day, make it your business to say an encouraging word to somebody.. anybody! You never who needs it!β€πŸ’›

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