Never apologize for having standards and refusing to just let anyone have a seat at your table in life. People may take offense to it but they often forget that it has more to do with yourself than it does them. YOU are responsible for protecting your peace and have every right to decide who to let in and who to keep out. Call it selfish, I call it self-care. You have one life here on earth, be wise and take care of it. God will show you who NEEDS to be there.
One of the greatest standards I’ve developed so far this year is refusing to take a seat at one’s table of dysfunction, negativity, misery, lies, etc. You have a choice as to what you deal with and please believe that when your standards and refusal to put up with some things make someone uncomfortable or feel rejected, they will pinpoint YOU as the problem but keep your standards and protect your peace anyways. Some things you really DO NOT have to deal with. I promise. πβ
Boy did I need to read this today I love it
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Thank you!! π Makes my heart smile to know that I can help encourage someone else! I hope you have a great weekend!!
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Beautiful post! You totally make your words count so that they can leave this lovely impact! π
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Thanks Anushka !!! You’re too sweet!! I’m aiming to really encourage others as much as I can!! xoxo! I hope you have a great weekend !
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Well said
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Thank you ππ
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Why purple hearts πβ€πππ red rocks
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Lol Purple is my favorite color !! π
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oh really thats amazing like I loved purple color as a child I still like it but i am diverting to red haha
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Hahaha! Nothing wrong with that!!
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So true! Iβve become very good at walking away from negative people. It really brings you down!
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Yess!! & when you let it go .. it seems like a weight that has been lifted!πThanks for reading and connecting with meπ
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Yes important to keep ones dignity
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Yes maam !! π thanks for stopping by and reading!!
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Very well said! π
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So important for all of us to remember! β€
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Agreed!β€ Thanks for reading!!
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So so so true!
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Thank you!!
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I love this post. We shouldn’t allow just any one into our lives.
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Gotta be cautious!β€
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You are welcome
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Just two words thank you!!
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Thanks for stopping by to read !!
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Indeed, well saidβπ
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Thank you!π
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Great post! I second removing negative people from my life. Cheers to that π₯
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Thanks girlie !! π
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Love this post!!!
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Thanks!! β€
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Self care! That’s very important especially as an adult coz nobody gonna do that for you. We owe it to ourselves.
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I agree 100 % thanks for reading!!
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This is so, so true! It’s far less about them than it is about you. If they bring negativity to your life, it is important to make the decision for YOURSELF to remove them. It’s not about hating or even disliking them necessarily, but simply about needing more light and positivity in your surroundings.
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Right !! It’s literally about doing what’s best for you!! Thanks for reading !! β€β€
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Thank you so much !! β€ I’ll be sure to check out your link too π
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