My heartaches a little bit today for people who are in toxic relationships that are struggling with the decision to get out of it and some who are no longer in the relationship but having a hard time with the healing process of it. Here’s some real words of love & encouragement for you today! I hope this helps!!ππ
“Stop thinking about how they will feel. No decision will pay off more than leaving behind the person that was causing you pain. No decision will pay off more than a made up mind that says no more. No decision will pay off more than the one that chooses to no longer entertain the phone calls and the random texts and sorries. YOU DESERVE MORE. So when the real breakup happened in your heart and in your mind, your BLESSING was formed. Now you can feel free. FREE from someone else’s thoughts because hurt people hurt people. Free from having the hope that no matter what they did their words are there to comfort you after they just hurt you. YOU DESERVE BETTER. THE BREAKUP IS A BLESSING. The truth was in the decision. Doesn’t matter who made the decision because if you are FINALLY SAYING NO MORE then you have decided for no one but you. No one said the decision is easy but the blessing that came with the decision makes it all worth it.. The blessing is self love, confidence, real love, opportunities, things finally going right because you knew with them things weren’t working out in other aspects of your life. The blessing is now you gravitating at a much quicker pace to what belongs to you because you are FREE from the negativity and hurt from others. It’s okay to be FREE. YOU DESERVE THIS BLESSING. IT IS YOURS! THIS DECISION HAS PAID OFF. The decision wasn’t easy but it’s your time to heal from this breakup. The decision is paying off. It’s your time to reclaim your peace.” –Tatiana Jerome!
Take all the time you need to heal emotionally. Moving on doesn’t take a day. It takes a lot of little steps to be able to break free .. one day at a time! Love you!ππ
-Jessica
Indeed some* breakups open doors to new blessings because the person has decided to live a life they deserve so the βuniverseβ (law of attraction) give them what they deserve.
Great post!πβ₯οΈπΊ
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There are definitely alot of blessings and opportunities that come with it !! Thank you for reading!!β€π
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Youβre welcome!πβ₯οΈπΊ
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I needed to hear this, thank you for sharing. Nice read
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Thank you for reading!! Love you!!π
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Beautiful piece of writing . Time is everything that i believe.
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Yesss!! God’s Timing is everything! Thank you for reading my love!!β€π
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Always dearβ₯οΈβ₯οΈ
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Great message Jessica,
“What does not hurt is not love.What does not pass is not happiness”
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Thank you for reading!!
I β€ that quote you just stated! I had to think about it for a minute lol
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Nice one Jessica!
I remember the quote I read before, “If that’s what it takes for You to lead me this far. Lord, go ahead and break my heart.” It is like you’ve been saved from the wrong person sometimes.
Thank you Jessica for sharing this. It helps a lot. β€ π
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Thanks for reading & I really like that quote you just stated !! It’s like you’re surrendering your will completely to His alone!!β€ Beautiful!!
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Yes. For we cannot do anything without Him who gives us strength. β€ You are great Jessica!
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Thanks for blessing me with your kind thoughts and words today!! I hope an unexpected blessing falls in your lap today !! ππ
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So beautiful and encouraging for many who are struggling! I use to work with domestic and sexual violence victims. This post makes me think of them. Some were struggling to leave and some had left already struggling not to go back into that cycle. I wish I had the opportunity to share some of your words with them. ππ keep doing great things. Sending love and positive vibes!
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Thank you so much Bianca!! ππ That means so much to me!!
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I have gone through so many toxic relationships (mostly friends, but one was romantic) that absolutely tore me apart – especially when I began distancing myself from them, only to have them apologize and THEN get their act together?? I hate it because I wouldβve enjoyed being friends with someone who cared for me like they did at the end of our time knowing each other! People are so disappointing, which is why itβs crucial that we rely on the Lord for our constant companionship. β€ The quote you shared that said, βHurt people hurt people,β is absolutely right! Itβs hard to leave behind friends youβd love to get along with, but Iβve had to see that old βfriendsβ didnβt care for me as I hoped they would, which is why I had to step away. Thank you for sharing this motivational post today, Jessica! May the Lord bless you! β€ β€ β€
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Hey Maggie!!β€
I understand and I can totally relate. I’ve had my share of both toxic friendships and relationships. I would have to say the relationship with my oldest son’s father was the worst. That was a relationship filled with a lot of mental and physical abuse, a lot of cheating and lying.. it was just hurtful. “TOXIC” is a understatement!! It took a lot of prayer and courage to finally leave him. The healing process wasn’t easy but it was all worth it! Now I can look back and appreciate the experience and growth I got from it. Hurt people really do hurt people!
Thanks for reading!! π I hope you have wonderful day love!!
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Some people won’t learn this until they live it, but that’s life. After all, some lessons need to be experienced.
Great post!
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Thank you so much and you’re exactly right!! βΊ
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Yes this post!!! I know so many people in relationships they shouldnβt be in and I thank god everyday for giving me dillonπ you never know how truly blessed you are until you encounter the heartache of someone elseβs toxic relationship, I hope so many people read this and realize that they deserve so much more than what they might be going through!
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Thank you so so much !!! ππ
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Every breakup or heartache is the peeling of a layer in your life that is unnecessary any more. That is why it hurts. Peeling off anything has a little pain to it, but once your new layer is revealed, you are shinier and prettier. π
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Amen !!! That was very well said Qui !! β€
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This was an amazing post with so much strength and passion! I appreciate you sharing this and you have really empowered me. Thank you so much!!!
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You are so welcome my love !!! ππ
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Yes love it and can relate so much. It hurts until you realize that you are better off. The blessing is learning how to learn yourself, and unlearn the toxic habits you have as well (as I donβt believe thereβs an abuser and victim since both people are toxic one way or another). Keep on spreading that knowledge!
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Yes ma’am!! Your words just then were everything!!! Thanks for reading!!
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very insightful words…don’t be fearful…don’t fret the investment…file bankruptcy and get your credit together. quit pour into a bucket with a hole in it. embrace the freedom…
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Amen !!!
Thank you for reading!β₯οΈ
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you are most welcomed
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Love yu!π
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Needed to hear such stuff..Thankyou for such a beautiful piece of writing ππ€
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Glad I could help!! I hope you have a very Blessed Sunday!! xo!
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True be unconditional.
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Thank you!
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Thank you so much..i needed this so much today
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Girl you are so welcome!!!β€ Prayers for you!!
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This was awesome. We can remind ourselves but sometimes we need it written down/said by someone else.
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As the titles says it correctly…..you’ve moulded your words in such a way that breakup now seems to me really as a blessing now…..I too am a novice writer and write about such stuff….I would really appreciate if you have a look at my blog and review it – http://www.passionaters.wordpress.com
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